Just to maintain interest. But kitten, the short answer here is this: do not worry. This is a phase. Do not neglect her or get your panties all in a twist on it. The bigger deal that you make, the more you fan the flames of drama.
It is in the first throws of adolescence (lucky you) Imagine if you can live version of Halloween every day, meaning she'll try on different identities to see what feels right. All normal, by race. It is you test to see if you're going to love and accept her no matter what.Underneath the way-too-black eyeliner and smeared with thick red lipstick (we can all thank Robert Smith of The Cure for the invaluable combination), she wants to know if you'll still be there for her as she leaves the little girl she was.
Also, the only whole vampire thing is nothing new ... in my day, everyone went ape-shit of Anne Rice novels and listening to Bauhaus on a constant loop.Most people, including your daughter will simply dip their feet into the whole goth scene (short for "Gothic") - be considered by the irreducible posers - and find another dress to wear little after. If the attachment vampire begins to interfere with school work or if she becomes increasingly isolated, then it is time to worry and that you may need to seek advice at that time. And even then, the question is not vampires dressed all in black or listening to music tearful - It's classic depression, that adolescent girls are particularly vulnerable.Write back if it gets to that point, and I'll help you find some resources.
So this is Scaredy cat. Enjoy the ride. LTD....
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